Aint That Just A Suck In The Dick

“He viewed his own mentality as grotesque but useful, like a chair made of antlers.”

— Thomas Harris, Red Dragon (via bluebeardsbride)

AS A SOCIETY WE ARE MUCH TOO WILLING TO SETTLE FOR THE WORST INSTEAD OF STRIVING TO BE OUR BEST BECAUSE IT IS EASIER AND MORE COMFORTABLE.

LIFE IS ABOUT EXPERIENCES AND LEARNING. WE SIMPLY CANNOT ACHIEVE THAT BY STAYING IN PLACE.

hi. are u aware of bill 1671

im not great w elaborating but this bill does have sweeping implications esp for lgbt, nsfw, art circles etc

please pass this around, and if anybody has something to add, do add it!! again cos im not great w elaborating

(u can call ur reps to vote no on it!)

Postal Dude: Valentine’s day is just a consumerist holiday that holds no real value other than drive people insane buying heart shaped chocolates for their significant others and pos- Pyro: I wrote you a poem. Postal Dude, already crying: You did?

I AM DISAPPOINTED IN YOU GUYS. WHERE IS ALL THE P1/P4 SELFCEST. THERE NEEDS TO BE MORE!!

unfortunate news being aroace does not give you immunity against yearning . sorry. i know . i was disappointed to learn it too

NEVER LISTEN 2 THA EVIL VOICE IN UR HEAD TELLING U 2 BE USEFUL !!!!!!!!! SLACK OFF JACK OFF KILL YOURSELF #THEGRIND

PEOPLE ARE NOMADIC NATURALLY AND THIS IS NOT LIMITED TO PHYSICALITY - IT ALSO APPLIES TO OUR MINDS. THIS DOES NOT MEAN WE SHOULD NOT FIND COMFORT IN PLACE, BECAUSE WITHOUT THAT WE WOULD NEVER FIND COMFORT AT ALL.

WE HAVE TO BALANCE OURSELVES. REST AND RELAX, RETURN HOME - BUT NEVER BECOME STAGNANT AND NEVER STOP EXPLORING.

AS A SOCIETY WE ARE MUCH TOO WILLING TO SETTLE FOR THE WORST INSTEAD OF STRIVING TO BE OUR BEST BECAUSE IT IS EASIER AND MORE COMFORTABLE.

LIFE IS ABOUT EXPERIENCES AND LEARNING. WE SIMPLY CANNOT ACHIEVE THAT BY STAYING IN PLACE.

People think NPD is all about ego, but it’s really about needing significance to feel okay.

When you’re starving for connection and validation, and people only show up on their time, it feels like betrayal. Like you’re invisible.

It’s not that we don’t appreciate connections, it’s that the timing and consistency matter more than people realize.

Casual check-ins or delayed replies feel like crumbs when you’re starving. And that mismatch? It drains you fast.

The frustration turns into anger. Not because we want to be jerks, but because it feels like people don’t get it.

It’s not enough to love us when it’s convenient. We crave that deeper, constant significance in their lives.

This isn’t about being selfish either. It’s about survival in a way that makes sense to us.

NPD makes it hard to self-soothe, so we seek external validation to stabilize. And when people can’t meet that need, it feels like a direct attack on our worth.

For those with NPD

You’re not alone in this. It’s tough when your needs feel like too much for others. But recognizing the pattern can help.

Seek people who naturally meet you halfway and learn to self-soothe when they can’t.

No one is going to save you